I had an emotional break down yesterday. The reason… my weight, as usual!
I started my progesterone shots three weeks ago. Knowing that these shots will make me gain weight that is additional to what I gain with being pregnant, I increased my workouts from 3 days a week to 5-6 days a week, between 20-40 minutes a session, making sure I burned between 250-500 calories each session. There are days when I am just so exhausted all I want to do is go to sleep, but I still drag my weary body to the elliptical and work out. Sadly, all this exercising has done nothing to lessen the weight gain. Hence the breakdown. In the last two weeks I have gained five pounds and I am miserable.
Granted, the first week I got my progesterone shot, I indulged myself in a huge slab of Tiramisu during the course of that week (hey, I am pregnant) which could explain some of the two pounds I gained that week, but since then I have tried to be on good eating behavior, limiting my sugar intake and trying to eat less. So my only explanation for gaining the three pounds this week is that it has something to do with the progesterone shot.
How can I be so sure that it is the progesterone shot making me gain all the additional weight you ask? Well, I weighed myself on Wednesday to give the nurse that administers my shots an accurate measurement (the nurse comes to my house to give me the shot). I also weigh myself (I know I’m obsessed) on Sundays for my own weight tracking chart. It is within those four days that my weight jumped three pounds. I know that I am supposed to gain weight when I am pregnant, but for all the activity I do, I should be gaining the normal one pound a week, not three! So yes, I do blame the progesterone for my excessive weight gain.
Hence the reason for my breakdown yesterday. It just seems that no matter what I try to do to control my weight gain, it’s not working. It is out of my hands. I am just going to gain weight incontrollable, no matter how much I exercise and/or cut my food intake. 🙁 Another reason for my misery, William predicted that I am going to gain 40 pounds this pregnancy. Looking at the way I am gaining weight, he is going to be right. My desire to prove him wrong was one of my motivations to keep my weight gain low, but now that I have no control on my weight gain, all my hopes to not gain 40 lbs+ has been thrown out the window, because I know that it’s not going to happen.
Additionally, these shots have me on an emotional roller coaster. Everything gets to me. Its horrible. I find myself depressed for reasons I cannot explain, and the kids have been a major source for my annoyance. I mean, I yell at them for everything, when before I used to just let some things pass because it was not worth yelling about. For example, a couple of days ago, I was yelling at Aidan for not finishing his yogurt. Come on, how stupid was that. But like my weight, I cannot seem to control my anger.
Your next question is, why dont I just stop doing the shots? My answer, I dont want to. All I have to do is remember Aidans birth and there is no way in hell I will risk having another premature baby. Aidan was born at 33 weeks. I didnt even get a chance to hold him when he was born. Instead he was whisked away to NICU. When I finally got a chance to see him for the first time, he had wires all over him and he was hooked up to all sorts of weird machines. For a first time mom seeing her newborn in such a position, it was heartbreaking. I just stood by his crib crying, afraid to hold him due to fear that he might break. Granted he came out of it okay and now is a three year old monster, but there is no way that I ever want to go through that again.
Aidan’s First Day
So I will bear the painful shots that leave my butt sore for days, the crazy, uncontrollable weight gain, and the mood swings. And my husband will have to learn to deal with and be supportive of my weekly meltdowns. And you my dear reader (assuming I have any), will have to put up with reading additionally postings of me complaining about my weight. All this torture just so that I can have a full- term, healthy baby girl and it will be worth it in the end! At least that is what I tell myself to prevent another full blown crying session. *SIGH* And yes, I will keep working out, with the hope that once the baby is born, all this weight will be just a little bit easier to lose. *DOUBLE SIGH*